In the midst of a very confusing time, I find myself struggling between giving space and being lovingly detached, and trying to engage and get any interaction with my separated wife.
Tossing and turning at night, I waft from the practical advice given to me not to take things too personally, to give her the time and space that she needs, and, moments of utter terror at the thought of loosing her due to my seeming inaction. The following blog post from Dal Rock has been very enlightening and reaffirming for me:
Healing And Growth! 